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Professionalism: Networking 101

Networking can be defined as the exchange of information and ideas among people with a common profession or special interest, usually in an informal social setting. Networking often begins with a single point of common ground, usually found through introductions and small talk. Once common ground is established, individuals decide whether they want to take the connection to a deeper level. That decision could be made by considering some of these things: 

  • Are we in the same or overlapping circles? Will this connection support growth with either party?
  • Do I have knowledge, skills, or connections that can help this person or their business?
  • Does this person have knowledge, skills, or connections that could help me or my business?
  • Do I like this person? How well do we get along?
  • Are we in similar work fields? Do we or can we share resources or clients?

Professionals use networking to expand their circles of acquaintances, find out about job opportunities in their fields, and increase their awareness of news and trends in their fields or the greater world. 

Business networking is sometimes seen as a chore. People are often fearful that it will be a waste of their time and energy, that they won’t know who to talk to or what to say, or that they will look awkward and out of place. But if you have a plan and a strategy, you can optimize your time and your energy. Stay tuned for our blog Professionalism: Networking 102.

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How to Practice Good Etiquette

Etiquette is all about how we interact with others. The whole point of practicing good etiquette is to put everyone at the same level, make everyone comfortable in all situations. How do YOU contribute to this? What is your role? It SHOULD be your goal to do all you can to create positive and respectful experiences for all parties. So, how do you do this? Here is some mental stimulation:

  • Being thoughtful is almost all it takes to show that you care and that you are trying to be respectful of others.
  • Realize your impact on the environment and people around you.
  • Pay attention and feel the goodness of the world you are in.
  • Recognize that many different lives are lived within a community and that the goal is to be inclusive.
  • Create safe spaces for everyone to be heard and to be themselves.
  • Participate pleasantly and thoughtfully in interactions with others as best you can.
  • Practice understanding and compassion when receiving the thoughts, opinions, and experiences of others.

Wouldn’t it be nice, if the world was just a bit kinder, a bit nicer, a bit more pleasant? Well, YOU have everything to do with that. By keeping these mental stimulants in mind and in practice, not only would you be contributing your goodness to society, but you will be modeling appropriate demeanor for those in your presence.

I welcome your thoughts on this topic.

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Juggling Too Much?

Do you ever walk into a room and forget why you went in there? Do you often feel like you are forgetting something? Do you find yourself moving from one task to the next with no breaks all day long? With all of the schedules for our work, family, and social lives, who finds themselves forgetting tasks, appointments, details, or even ideas? 

We live in a society that thrives on constant flows of information and continuous movement. Humans (animals in general) were not built to operate in that manner. We need regular breaks throughout the day (not to mention a good night’s sleep) to recharge and refresh. Think of your brain capacity as a rechargeable battery, like your cell phone. One hundred percent battery power is ideal. We may not even start the day at 100% and we are depleting it all day without recharging it sufficiently to operate with full functionality. It’s no wonder we have so many lapses in our memory. We are often working consistently in low battery mode. How comfortable and confident are you with that at work, with your family, or in your social life?

Question: Until things change, what can you do to ease the effects of this societal drive? Suggestion: Make a conscious effort to take mental (and physical) breaks in your day. If you spend most of your day inside, go outside, take some deep breaths, and take in the sights, sounds, and scents of nature. That can keep you from running blindly to your next task, put you in the present, and give you some much-needed blood and brain oxygen. Pause, breathe and hear the birds. Five minutes could give you a quick 5% back. How many times can you work that in your day?

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Re-Gifting

Re-gifting used to be taboo. It was the sort of thing you would never do, or at least never admit to doing. But in the last few years, the stigma has lessened and the act of re-gifting has become more commonplace. Gift-giving is about intention and relationships, not how much we spend. So if you are going to re-gift, there should be some ground rules so that no one gets hurt. Here are just two of them:

  1. Be sure to closely examine the package for signs that it is a re-gift such as old cards, tags, hand-written inscriptions, remnants of old wrapping paper, or tape. Nothing gives a re-gift away like dusty wrapping paper or someone else’s name on the packaging. In fact, since you are saving time and money on the gift, a thoughtful, hand-written, personalized card makes this re-gift a must!
  2. Never give within the same circle of people. Just to be safe, even if you think that their paths will never cross, it’s best to disclose the re-gift to anyone with whom you are very close. For example, tell your mom when you give her the scarf that you got at the office gift exchange, “I knew you would love this as soon as I saw it. I had to give it to you.” 

Share your thoughts on and experiences with re-gifting.