When you think of black-tie or white-tie events, you may think of words such as, glamorous, fancy, or elegant. But what it really means is: formal. Most of us do not attend or even get invited to many formal events these days. We might occasionally get invited to a formal wedding, award ceremony, gala, or opera but probably not enough to own a tuxedo or formal gown. So, what is the difference between black tie and white tie in dress codes? It could not be as simple as it sounds.
For men, when black tie is the dress code, the expectation is a formal jacket, shirt, and pants, plus a bow or long tie. Cufflinks and pocket squares are optional. A tuxedo is appreciated, but a very nice suit is acceptable. The jacket and pants should match, but the suit does not have to be black. Dark grey, blue, or brown can work, but the tie (as the name suggests) must be black.
For women, when black tie is the dress code, a medium-length cocktail dress or full-length evening gown is expected. Typically, patterns are frowned upon. Solid colors are a better blend with formal menswear. Classic heels, a clutch, tasteful jewels, and a shawl also fit the code.
White tie is the most formal dress code. As the name suggests, a white tie is expected for men. And this time, it must be a bow tie. A tuxedo is required, and tails and top hats are options, but white gloves are a must.
White gloves are also expected for women at a white-tie event. Their dress can be a full-length evening gown or ball gown. Heels are a must and up hair is the expectation. If jewels are worn, they should be the most elegant. A clutch and fur or bolero vest can round out a woman’s ensemble.
So, yes, as simple as it sounds, right? What is key to remember is that you are not alone in your pursuit to attend a formal event appropriately dressed. So please use your resources. The host/hostess, other attendees, and the internet can guide you in the right direction. And most importantly, have fun!